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And when you’re plus-sized (or if your appearance doesn’t conform to mainstream beauty standards in other ways), dating can seem fraught with even more challenges.
It’s not a level playing field, and there’s no point pretending it is.
For someone who’s overweight, being bombarded by these messages is painful enough; for me, someone who hasn’t been overweight in over a decade and who has 12% body fat, it’s painful, but I don’t expect to elicit pity from anyone.
This is less about pity and more about understanding; the grass is never greener on the other side, it’s all just the same shitty lawn.
Over the years, my obsession only grew to encompass all things muscular, extending beyond the gym into my sexual tastes and proclivities. While I’m aware I have far more to offer men than my body, men don’t seem interested beyond what I have to physically offer.
Some people are into piss play or role playing, I’m into muscle fetishism and muscle worship. By using my body as currency—to garner attention and acceptability—my body becomes the focus and everything else inconsequential.
After you read advice on writing a great online dating profile to attract women you should be ready to apply this advice and write your own great dating profile.
I am a big fan of learning what’s a good through making a contrast between good and bad.
By now I hope we can all agree that Valentine’s Day is, well, a little bit silly.
The last time I stressed out over this alleged holiday was in fifth grade, when the printer ran out of ink in the middle of printing cards for my classmates.
Man, they really drill in the message early with this nonsense: Maybe that’s why dating as an adult so often feels like a class we’re flunking. With rare exception, dating is considered a pain in the ass, but a necessary hurdle if you want to advance to the next romantic level.
With all these factors considered, I’m too insecure to date.
And after constantly putting myself through this emotional ringer, I don’t want to date.